If someone does not want to be called fat then they should change
it. I am tired of hearing that it is not
their fault, well actually it is! Accept
it; acknowledge it and then you can change it.
I know this is a rant and I may offend a few people but I am sick and
tired of our country excusing people’s bad behavior and then spending my money
to pay for the obese person medication, or surgeries or whatever it is they
need.
If we tell obese people to that they MUST make changes
before they can get healthcare then we are starting to address the
problem. If someone were unwilling to
make any personal changes then why on earth would we give them a handicap
placard, medication to hide their symptoms and let them remain fat! There is something sinister about giving
people medication without addressing the issue, we need to help these people
make changes if they do not want to change then we should call them lazy!
Obesity is growing at an astronomical rate and our
healthcare system cannot sustain the care required to deal with the all the
health issues around obesity. Why should
Americans who take responsibility for their own health have to pay for the
healthcare of someone who is lazy or unwilling to make changes?
I hear people all the time say “I know what I need to do but
I just do not want to.” Well if the Doctor
I will not help you until you change then they would be sued or lose their
medical license. Here in lies the problem,
the healthcare profession is not equipped and may lack the knowledge to help many
of their own patients. It is consider
cruel to tell a person they have to make changes before they can receive
medication. Do you give an alcoholic a
drink because they want it?
Let’s look at it this way – if a person smokes, gets lung
cancer and wants treatment BUT refuses to quit smoking then maybe we should
just let them be sick and dying until they really want to change.
Here is my offer: if you want to change, if you do not know
what you need to do then ask! I have
always been willing to help others change and make informed decisions. I am willing to jump in and help, are you
willing to listen and make changes?